All these principles, to some extent, help answer the questions: “How to determine that these people are not accidental and can become partners?” And “What is the astrological relationship between partners?”
Principle 1. The situation can exist only in accordance with the natal chart.
Let’s give some examples. If a person has an inharmonious Venus in his chart, then his love stories will always create some difficulties and problems, so if you assume an “ideal” resonance from other astrological observations, these prospects will not realize, because they contradict the natal chart. If Saturn is in the seventh house, then the relationship with the partner will not develop, unless he is an exponent of Saturn’s energies: much older in age, or higher in social position, or employee or, at worst, just Capricorn by the Sun. Based on the natal chart, you can draw quite specific conclusions about how the relationship between a person and his partners will develop, for example, rather specific situations arise with the opposite aspect of the Moon and Venus. If a person has an inharmonious Venus and a harmonious Moon, most likely he will get married at the first opportunity. He will not feel comfortable, making romance; Much more pleasant to him will be the thoughts of a home. An opposite situation will arise with an inharmonious Moon and a harmonious Venus. A person will happily perceive the emergence of some new relationship, but the idea of a joint existence will make him tremble. However, as a rule, people are able to realize this only post factum.
Principle 2. A person (that is, his chart) must always correspond to his astrological image in the partner’s chart.
For each person in your chart, there is a planet (or several planets) and a house, defined by its function in your life and symbolizing it. The mistress is Venus, the fifth house and, in part, the Moon; Wife – the moon, the seventh house and, partially, Venus; The husband is Mars, the seventh house and, in part, the Sun, etc. The position of the corresponding planet and house in your chart, determine what kind of astrological essence your partner should have. For example, if your Moon is in Libra in conjunction with Pluto, your partner should have enough air in his chart and in some way carry the energy of Pluto: for example, to have several planets in Scorpio or a fairly accurate major, most likely, tense aspect of Pluto to one of the main synastric planets (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars). If your partner satisfies only a part of the “astrological requirements”, this does not mean that the situation will not arise at all, but it will either quickly disintegrate or leave a feeling of dissatisfaction and unnaturalness all the time.
Principle 3. Between the partners’ charts, there should be “bonds”, that is, an astrological reflection of the possibility of contact of their destinies.
In order for people to be able to exist together, it is necessary that at least in some areas they have events at the same time. This is achieved by having aspects between the planets of the charts of both people. Depending on what kind of aspects they have, how precise they are, and what planets they connect, one can speak of the strength of the “bonds” of two people. To ensure that people constantly communicate with each other, a sufficiently strong interaction of certain planets is necessary, while it should be noted that the opposite is not true – people can live under the influence of similar astrological cycles, but quite independently of each other.
Principle 4. The interaction of the charts of partners must carry a certain balance of the common (which allows people to understand each other) and different (which makes communication creative).
Often beginning astrologers are surprised when the “ideal” from their point of view resonance in the people’s charts, does not give confirmation in the real situation. There is nothing surprising. If communication did not carry any problems in itself, it would simply lose its meaning. It always has to somehow affect the person, transform him, make him more developed. On the other hand, an excess of problems creates insurmountable obstacles for contacts, which do not allow people to communicate successfully. Therefore, for communication to exist, it is necessary to balance the number of problems, and the number of unhindered joys. Unfortunately, this balance is very individual, that is, it is determined by the natal chart of a particular person, which creates some difficulties (however, quite surmountable) in forecasting the development of relations. In addition, even for a particular person, such a balance is not entirely constant, because each situation carries a greater or lesser degree of “karma,” that is, it can focus more on past unprocessed problems (and, thus, give quite intense resonance), or become for one some kind of respite and to be much more harmonious than usual.
Principle 5. A partner is a reflection of a person, and therefore the person’s actual problems should be visible in the partner’s chart.
As we said above: “partner – the mirror of man,” more precisely, not a person “in general,” but a person “here and now.” As a reflection of the inner development of a person, the partner reflects primarily current problems. If we consider the partners of a person in dynamics, then the situation will gravitate to one of two types: 1) in the charts of all partners one global problem is visible, which is also visible in the natal chart of this person; 2) the partners’ charts reflect the various problems of this person, but each time they are new. What does this mean?
However, in a real situation, it’s not necessarily we meet one of these extremes.
If we proceed from these principles, it becomes clear why there is no “universal” method of selecting partners. Therefore, all recommendations such as “Taurus and Aquarius are incompatible, and Cancer and Scorpio are compatible” are practically unsuitable, since they never take into account the specific situation and specific requests of this person. Moreover, to analyze the situation can sometimes only possible in dynamics, that is, having previously studied the existing and existed before relationships of a person with other people.
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